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What You May Learn from a Brief Personal Styling Lesson

“Do One Thing That Scares You Everyday” Eleanor Roosevelt

It is fair to say that I am at a bit of crossroads, essentially work wise. Am I the only one in this case? Certainly not ! It is also fair to say that I’ve been at the crossroads for a while, patiently waiting for something to happen, a sign of some sort…So, I am determined to follow Eleanor Roosevelt’s advice and I am keen to try new things. When I was invited to attend a personal styling workshop by ClassBunny, I said yes. I have a vague idea of what personal styling is, and I don’t consider myself completely hopeless in the style department. However, I was curious. Why would you do a personal styling course ? Under what circumstances ?

I first heard about personal styling from a colleague who did such a course and absolutely loved it. And I was envious. More recently, I met a personal stylist at a conference and we didn’t seem to get along. This woman seem to take an instant dislike to me and me to her… I felt judged and put down in a very short period of time. I couldn’t help but have a negative image of going through an analysis of my style and body shape with her… In short, she scared me…

So, when the opportunity came to discover what this personal styling session was all about, I thought I would count it as my scary thing for the day.

First Impressions

Would you believe that first impressions are formed within three to seven seconds of meeting someone ? It’s a scientific fact. And which elements would come into this equation ? Eye contact ? Handshake ? Body language ? All the above would, and of course, clothing…

The Crowd

I’m always curious to see who would attend a class and why. This brief personal styling lesson met my expectations in that respect: the attendees were mostly women in their late forties and fifties, conscious of the image they project, and wanting to give themselves more confidence. Some of them were looking for new careers and some were quite age-conscious. Overall, I think everyone was also looking to enjoy themselves a little more and learn to balance the professional and casual wardrobes.

Colour, Colour, Colour

As the styling workshop could only run for an hour or so, Lynne from Stylish You had to focus on the most important thing. And that, is colour ! The first exercise was to discover everyone’s colour undertones. In order to do this, you hold a silver or gold piece of fabric next to your face and see what works better. It’s hard to do this yourself in front of the mirror, you need someone to look at you and form an opinion. If the silver cloth suits best, you’re into cool colours, such as blue, green, gray… On the other hand, if the gold cloth suits best, you’re into warm colours, such as red, yellow, or orange… Now, a red or a purple can be a cool colour, if there is strong element of blue in it. If there is more yellow, then it’s a warm colour…

The result for me was quite surprising… Warm colours are more suitable for me than cool ones… And I thought my love of blue ruled everything !

Some colours can be worn by everyone, such as navy, which is softer than black.

So I got a basic set of colours to choose from and I have to say I completely agree with it… My colour scheme is warm + light.

Signature Style Formula

Your style is not just in your clothes, but in a combination of things that make you who you are. A big takeaway of this personal styling lesson is the signature style formula:

Lifestyle + Colour + Body Shape + Style Personality + Decluttering

This is important, because the personal styling lesson is not about changing your style, but more about re-discovering it. You are who you are, and it’s more about enhancing your features and assets.

The Different Styles

Everyone has different styles, in fact, your personal style is a blend of different tendencies, and the style personality questionnaire offered by Lynne will help you define your own blend.

Classic Style

The Classic Style is defined as timeless and elegant, with simple, often tailored cuts. It usually involves a lot of black, navy and neutral colours. There is an emphasis on quality fabrics and quality basics. The Classic Style is a great one to have as a base. However, it can be challenging to put together a “play” wardrobe. The corporate wardrobe can be a little formal and strict.

Relaxed or Casual Style

The Relaxed Style likes to focus on comfortable and easy to maintain clothes. This style is not too fussed about the latest fashion details, but more about layering, and giving an impression of effortlessness. In this style, there are lots of flat shoes, denim, natural colours. It’s easy to shop for the basics and the Relaxed Style should be enhanced through accessories. However, this look can be a little too casual, and give the impression that you’re not making an effort.

Dramatic Style

The Dramatic Style gives a sense of glamour and drama. It is full of bold details, statement jewellery, vibrant colours and strong shapes. There is a need to create excitement but this style can be a bit over the top.

Innovative or Trendy Style

The Innovative Style works well for creative types, keen to mix things up and to try new things. As an innovator, you are a trendsetter, maybe an impulsive buyer. You are ready to step out of your comfort zone and experiment with cutting-edge details. This style is very much about attitude and can go a little a little crazy. Also, you might find it difficult to shop for basic pieces

Alluring Style

The Alluring Style is all about bringing sexy back ! You love to show a bit a skin, flirt a little and play with short skirts and plunging necklines. However, this style can be a little more difficult to carry off in a corporate environment.

Feminine Style

The Feminine Style is a softer way of dressing, using clothes and accessories typically associated with women, such as dresses, skirts and cute details. You would wear nothing too androgynous and would avoid typically masculine details. However, this look can come across as excessively “girly”.

My personal style is defined as Classic, Relaxed and Innovative, and I completely agree with it. Again, the personal styling lesson wasn’t about redefining my style, but more about re-discovering it.

A Style Trick

Upon meeting a personal stylist, the first thing you look at is their clothes, right ? Lynne wore a fitted skirt with a blue and white textured pattern, a cream blazer and, bold detail, animal print heels. It just worked, but I couldn’t figure out why or how…

A simple trick is to establish a connection between the top and the bottom. In Lynne’s outfit, the animal print shoes responded to a gold necklace, that’s why it worked so well !

Decluttering

This is where the styling journey starts… In your closet, with your existing wardrobe. I am quite fond of Start Decluttering Today already but I’m in for another round. Also, I might have a look at Marie Kondo’s book, for an all-over house effort !

Brief Verdict on a Brief Lesson

The personal styling lesson was too brief to form a full verdict but overall, it is definitely something worth exploring further. To me, personal styling works best if someone else tells you what to do, or at least gives you a few directions. As for my personal fear of stylists, it’s gone. There was nothing judgemental in Lynne’s approach, it was more about enhancing and celebrating who the participants were.

Lynne left us with an interesting affirmation:

“Commit to honouring yourself everyday by dressing in a way that makes you feel proud.”

Lynne is the brand stylist and business coach behind Stylish You. She started her journey in fashion in London and the idea of personal styling came when her friends kept inviting her on shopping trips. Fancy getting a career out of shopping, that’s what I call living the dream !

Have you done a personal styling course ? What did you get out of it ? Please share your stories in the comments below.

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Personal styling is an interesting experience for every woman keen to improve her confidence and sense of style and fashion.

28 Comments

  1. M. C. Frye

    May 16, 2017 at 3:55 pm

    I haven’t taken a personal style class, but I’ve been curious about what to expect if I were to join such a class. You answered some of my questions! Thanks!

    1. Delphine

      May 16, 2017 at 4:10 pm

      Thank you for your comment, I think it something certainly worthwhile, it’s a great thing for personal confidence and self-love!

  2. Mica

    May 16, 2017 at 10:45 pm

    This sounds like a really fun class! I’ve had a personal stylist come over and help me do a wardrobe declutter before, but I’ve never gone to a class. It sounds really interesting! 🙂 Thanks for sharing your findings.

    Hope you are having a great week 🙂

    1. Delphine

      May 17, 2017 at 9:07 pm

      Hi Mica, personal styling is a really good thing to do, I’m planning to do a big declutter this weekend!

      1. Mica

        July 12, 2017 at 6:00 pm

        Hope your declutter went well! I can never do it all at once, chipping off bit by bit seems to work for me best!

        1. Delphine

          July 13, 2017 at 8:11 am

          Hi Mica, decluttering is always on my mind, I get rid of things on a regular basis. But recently, I also listed a whole lot of clothes on eBay and had a big clear out, it felt wonderful!

  3. Pamela Woods

    May 17, 2017 at 7:57 pm

    Hi Pamela from classbunny here! So glad you came along to the class, I had a lot of fun, and it has given me a way of getting rid of all the rubbish in my wardrobe! All this time I was wearing the wrong shade of green and Lynne was right about that! Great blog post!

    1. Delphine

      May 17, 2017 at 9:01 pm

      Hi Pamela, thank you for the invitation, I really enjoyed the session with Lynne. I’m going to clear my wardrobe this weekend too!

  4. Veronica Tegen

    May 18, 2017 at 6:21 am

    This would be so much fun! I like to have 1 statement piece (jewelry, a fun skirt, or pants, a fluffy sweater), and then work around it. Sometimes I have a hard time with bright colors, often pairing a neutral with them instead of a fun print. I could learn from this!

    1. Delphine

      May 18, 2017 at 8:11 am

      Hi Veronica, colours and shape are the hardest but if you get these right, you can look very well put together. Lynne suggested to introduce colours one by one on a black and white background in order to get comfortable with them gradually.

  5. Anastasia Nicole

    May 18, 2017 at 7:01 am

    That sounds like a really cool class!

    1. Delphine

      May 18, 2017 at 8:06 am

      Hi Anastasia, yes the class was good, it was a great introduction to how important personal style is and how a little bit of effort can go a long way!

  6. Gina Marie | The Professional Woman Blog

    July 11, 2017 at 12:07 pm

    I never heard of such a class but it sounds like something very fun to take

    1. Delphine

      July 11, 2017 at 12:46 pm

      Gina Marie, not only it is fun, but I think it brings very useful knowledge on how to present oneself. I think a lot of women leave personal style aside when they raise families and this type of class is useful when they are able to focus on themselves again.

    1. Delphine

      July 11, 2017 at 12:45 pm

      Hi Natalie, it’s fun but also very educational. I really like the idea of learning about yourself. There is a lot of focus on learning about oneself emotionally but personal style is an area that a lot of women take for granted and don’t necessarily think of developing.

  7. Nostalgia Diaries

    July 11, 2017 at 3:17 pm

    This is such an interesting idea! I bet I could learn so many things from a personal styling lesson!

    1. Delphine

      July 11, 2017 at 6:29 pm

      I’m sure you could learn lots, my favourite was the colour chart, knowing which colours suit me is so useful!

  8. girlgonelondon

    July 12, 2017 at 6:31 am

    This sounds amazing! I remember doing a styling session when I was 12 or so with the Girl Scouts (I have no idea why!), and it was all lost on me then, but I could totally use it as an adult. Thanks for sharing your experience!

    1. Delphine

      July 12, 2017 at 8:41 am

      Funny that the Girl Scouts would do a styling session… It’s much better as an adult, I would love to do a more in-depth one!

  9. eclectickristal

    July 12, 2017 at 9:57 am

    I for sure have a relaxed style.But this was fun to read through

    1. Delphine

      July 12, 2017 at 12:31 pm

      I’m like you Kristal, I don’t always want to worry about what I wear but it does count to pay attention to a few details to always look good.

  10. Concreteislanista

    July 12, 2017 at 12:14 pm

    I love that you took this course. It is never too late to educate yourself in fashion and have fun looking great! I work n the fashion industry and my style is a mix of classic, innovative feminine and at times dramatic. Glad you found your comfort zone.

    1. Delphine

      July 12, 2017 at 12:30 pm

      Thank you so much for your comment and encouragement! It’s true that it’s never too late to get an education in something as subtle yet important as personal style.

  11. Adventuring The Great Wide Somewhere

    July 13, 2017 at 12:46 am

    I love the idea of a styling formula to help take personal style beyond just the clothes you wear. I think by these definitions, my style would be a blend of classic, casual and feminine. I’ve been looking for ways to dress things up, especially at work, so this is a great starting point to work with.

    1. Delphine

      July 13, 2017 at 8:06 am

      I’m very pleased that this post has been useful to you. I would love to explore the concept of capsule wardrobe next.

  12. Julie Anna

    July 13, 2017 at 1:18 am

    It’s great that you took this course! Above all, when a woman is comfortable and confident with herself, she always tends to look more fabulous I’ve learned.

    1. Delphine

      July 13, 2017 at 8:04 am

      Thanks Julie Anna, I would love to take a more in-depth course to cover everything but I really enjoyed learning the basics. And I agree with you that confidence does a lot for a woman.

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